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Hermes Solenzol

Jan 20, 2025

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Sexography

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Kimberley Diamond

Three Reasons Why You Need To Try Femdom

Written by your girl next door turned raving femdom fan

Jul 20, 2024

Three Reasons Why You Need To Try Femdom

Jul 20, 2024

North Star

All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

Updated for 2025….When you do new things, you need new words! The comprehensive glossary, now in its permanent home here.

Jul 11, 2024

All the Words You Need for Poly Kinky Sexy Times!

Jul 11, 2024

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Modern Women

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North Star

The Transgression Kink

If I Shouldn’t, Then I Want To!

Jul 8, 2024

The Transgression Kink

Jul 8, 2024

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TheDungeon

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Bondsge

Does Female Paypig Exist?

Female paypigs with male findoms are becoming more and more a part of the findom community, let’s explore their existence.

Jun 28, 2024

Does Female Paypig Exist?

Jun 28, 2024

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North Star

Standard Sexuality Arcs vs The Kink Journey: I Wish Everyone Knew

Here’s a theme I’m interested in exploring, enough so that I made some graphics!

Mar 15, 2024

Standard Sexuality Arcs vs The Kink Journey: I Wish Everyone Knew

Mar 15, 2024

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Sexography

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Mariza Writes

I have no Choice But to Be Your Sex Slave

My ass is yours

Mar 15, 2024

I have no Choice But to Be Your Sex Slave

Mar 15, 2024

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TheDungeon

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Bondsge

Tinder for BDSM? A New Way to Find a Kink Partner

Everyone knows Tinder. But as a person interested in BDSM, shouldn’t you be using apps dedicated to that community?

Mar 11, 2024

Tinder for BDSM? A New Way to Find a Kink Partner

Mar 11, 2024

Jay Wiseman

Excerpts from “SM 101”

Yesterday was supposed to be “Excerpt Day” for one of my books but reality got in the way of making that happen. I’m therefore publishing…

Mar 7, 2024

Excerpts from “SM 101”

Mar 7, 2024

Jay Wiseman

On Bondage and Monitoring

How to watch over a person in bondage and keep them safe

Dec 13, 2023

On Bondage and Monitoring

Dec 13, 2023

ChastityExplore

Managing Erections While Wearing a Chastity Cage

Chapter 1:

Oct 27, 2023

Managing Erections While Wearing a Chastity Cage

Oct 27, 2023

Jay Wiseman

Intimacy and the D/s Relationship

Intimacy and the D/s Relationship by Jay Wiseman, author of “SM 101: A Realistic Introduction” and other BDSM-related books.

Oct 6, 2023

Intimacy and the D/s Relationship

Oct 6, 2023

Gloria Brame, Ph.D., Sex Therapist

Red Flags in Kink — 5 Flaming Red Flags

To kinky people, there’s nothing grimmer than watching friends and newbies become enamored of people we don’t trust. We wonder, “ Good…

Sep 27, 2023

Red Flags in Kink — 5 Flaming Red Flags

Sep 27, 2023

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Sexography

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Nicole Mackenna

Men's and Women’s Kinks Aren’t All That Different After All

I’m so grateful the sex and gender barriers are finally breaking down

Jun 4, 2023

Men's and Women’s Kinks Aren’t All That Different After All

Jun 4, 2023

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Artistic Edge Magazine

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Dr. Tiffany "K.", Ed.D.

Scene vs. Relationships in D/s: What’s the difference?

Within the kink subcultures such as BDSM and Dominant and submissive dynamics, there is a significant difference between scenes and…

Jun 28, 2023

Scene vs. Relationships in D/s: What’s the difference?

Jun 28, 2023

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Maggie’s List

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Maggie LaFae

How To Vet Potential Play Partners

Don’t get tied up until you do these things

Feb 15, 2023

How To Vet Potential Play Partners

Feb 15, 2023

Kadmys Villanueva

Chastity Keyholder: Surrender, and Intimacy

As a submissive in the world of BDSM, the concept of a chastity keyholder has always held a mysterious allure for me.

Jul 19, 2023

Chastity Keyholder: Surrender, and Intimacy

Jul 19, 2023

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Essensually Ena

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Ena Dahl

Ropes, Powerplay & Sadomasochism — Explaining My Kinks to My Mother

Excepts from this summer’s conversations with my mom; an interview of sorts

Sep 22, 2021

Ropes, Powerplay & Sadomasochism — Explaining My Kinks to My Mother

Sep 22, 2021

Hermes Solenzol

Hermes Solenzol

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Professor of neuroscience. Pain researcher. Old-school Leftist. Science, philosophy, politics and kinky sex. https://www.hermessolenzol.com/en

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