How to Recognize Abuse in BDSM Relationships
Twelve things that a define the boundary between BDSM and physical and emotional abuse
11 min readDec 22, 2019
One of the key issues in BDSM has always been how to distinguish a healthy BDSM relationship from one based on abuse and exploitation. To do that, an agreement was reached back in the 80s based on the three criteria of “safe, sane and…
